Options Counselling

Just for the Guys

Your partner has just discovered that she may be pregnant.

She’s looking for a solution, but where do you fit in?


You may be asking:

  • What are my rights?
  • How will her decision regarding this pregnancy affect me?
  • What if my girlfriend and I don’t agree?
  • How will my girlfriend respond to an abortion?
  • What can I do if I don’t agree with the decision my girlfriend is making?

You may be thinking:

  • Our relationship is unstable.
  • I need to finish school.
  • I’m not sure I’d be a good parent.
  • I don’t have a job.
  • She won’t listen to me.
  • I wish there was more I could do, but I don’t know what to do.
  • I don’t want her to make this decision without me.

At First Place OPTIONS we believe that you are a very important part of this decision.

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Real Answers for You Too!

You may have just discovered that your partner is pregnant and you’re probably experiencing many emotions yourself.  You likely have all kinds of thoughts running through your mind. Pregnancy is not just a women’s issue and it is important for men to know how they feel about the pregnancy as well.

However, men and women tend to adjust to an unexpected pregnancy at different rates, which may cause conflict for the couple. Men have little control over decisions once a pregnancy exists and this can be difficult to come to terms with.

Concerns you may have
Supporting your partner
What if you both disagree?

Post-Abortion Grief Support

If your partner has had an abortion and you would like to talk with someone, First Place OPTIONS offers post-abortion support to men and women either together or separately.

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