“I appreciate the time you took for the appointment last week. Thank you for the safe space to empathize, listen, and understand. Thank you for the information that you shared with me. That gave me more context to take more time to think about continuing or not.” - Pregnancy Options Support Client

When The Test is Positive

For anyone facing an unexpected pregnancy, the moment the pregnancy test turns positive can become a life-altering memory. In that instant, you might feel:

• Disbelief
• Shock
• Fear
• Or a mix of overwhelming emotions

Some people may initially feel excitement, only for fear and uncertainty about the future—or the reactions of others—to quickly take over.

What Are My Pregnancy Options?

If you are pregnant, you have three options:

Abortion – to end the pregnancy via a medical or surgical abortion

Adoption –  give birth and then place the child for adoption with a family that you have chosen.

Parent – give birth and then raise the child.

Why Do I Need Pregnancy Options Support?

During a crisis, emotions can become so intense that they cloud your ability to think clearly. This is especially true with an unplanned pregnancy.

Here’s why support is essential:

• Avoid Impulsive Decisions
  Panic can impair logical thinking and problem-solving. Acting in that state may lead to regret.
• Understand Your Core Values
  Life circumstances change, but your core values—what you believe and want for your future—often remain the same.
• Get Accurate Information
  Understanding the full scope of each option helps ensure your decision is based on facts, not assumptions or fear.
• Recognize Your Strengths
  Emotional decisions don’t always reflect your best self. With support, you can recognize both internal and external resources.

Get Pregnancy Options Support Today

A Pregnancy Options Support appointment at First Place Options provides you the time and space to process all of your options: abortion, adoption and parenting. 

Having someone to talk to—a neutral, non-judgmental third party—can help reduce the overwhelm. Many clients have told us this process helped them make a decision based on clarity, not fear.

What You Can Expect

Making an appointment for Pregnancy Options Support means gaining access to practical tools designed to help you manage your emotions and make informed decisions. Here’s what you can expect from our support:

• Accurate Information: Receive up-to-date information about all three pregnancy options—abortion, adoptions and parenting.
• Empathetic Support: Talk through your concerns and current life circumstances with supportive counsellors who understand your situation.
• Compassionate Enquiry: Life circumstances can change but your core values (what is important to you, what you believe, what you want for the future) often remain unchanged. You will be given space to be curious about your own values and desires.
• Decision-Making Tools: Utilize tools that aid in evaluating your options honestly and thoroughly.
• Ongoing Support: We’re here to meet with you as often as you need to ensure you feel confident and informed about your decision.

How Can Pregnancy Options Support Help?

An unexpected pregnancy raises many questions and emotions, and navigating this path requires careful consideration. When you are faced with an unexpected pregnancy, you are faced with following a path that can impact you for life. In situations like this, it is common to experience conflicting feelings and thoughts. Perhaps you may feel an initial inkling of excitement followed by a wave of dread or fear. Or perhaps you have never thought that you would have  an abortion, but now that you are faced with an unexpected pregnancy, you  find yourself wondering if abortion is right for you. These conflicting feelings  and thoughts can represent the clash between your head and your heart.  When making life impacting decisions it is important to take the time to process what your head is telling you and what your heart is telling you. 

 At First Place Options, we understand the significance of an unplanned  pregnancy and aim to support you through this challenging time. Our  approach encourages you to take the time you need before a final decision  is made about your pregnancy options: abortion, adoption and parenting. We provide a supportive environment where you can explore your concerns and feelings and evaluate your pregnancy options thoughtfully. Having a space where you feel you can openly and honestly reflect on your present and future, your head and your heart, without being pressured from outside sources (this might include the partner in the pregnancy) will empower you to discover the right direction for you to take.

The Benefits of a Thoughtful Approach

If you find yourself facing an unexpected pregnancy, remember that taking the time to carefully consider your options can minimize future unexpected pain and regret. 

Taking time to reflect on your values and emotions can:

• Help you avoid decisions you may regret
• Bring clarity when emotions are intense
• Ensure your choice aligns with what you truly believe and want

Many of our clients say they wish they had received more emotional support and information before taking action. We’re here for you. Reach out to FPO for Pregnancy Options Support today.